Relectant Because I'm Not Your Bitch

Okay, I'd decided to play. I was going to fulfill my husband's fantasies. I was going to be his personal porn star. I didn't want to go to a swinger's club, because I didn't want to feel like the new person, I didn't know how comfortable I'd be, and I didn't want my husband playing. But I'd had sex with guys before my husband, so I knew what to do if a fella and I were in a hotel room or bedroom. So we went with trying to arrange a one-on-one with my husband watching.

My husband was doing some of the initial screening for prospective guys. Right away we noticed there were a lot of black guys who offered their services. There were some white guys, but they seemed very young (I'm not comfortable with too young), or older and pudgy. The black guys, on the other hand, were in their 30s and 40s, and were very muscular. Exactly what I would want.

The obstacle...

I was comfortable having sex with white guys. I had never been with a black guy and my only impressions were from porn movies and rap videos, neither of which were my thing. In both of those exposures, the black guys objectified the women, made them their booty prize or their slut. In rap videos, the nameless women are soooo grateful to be with the guy and will do anything as demanded, but never becomes a person, always remaining a bling object. That's not me.

I'm more accustomed to being the sought-after woman. I have the vagina, therefor I'm in control and men are grateful when they get it. That's the way it's always been. Men pawing at me on first dates, me playing hard to get (well...most times). So no thank you.

Here's my impression of interracial porn movies: usually several black men gangbanging a white girl, with the bitch gets her hair pulled and gets face fucked forcefully. (Bitch is their colloquialism for the slut they are doing). Oh hell no! I'm no one's bitch. I'm not into having my hair pulled. I'm not into pain, spanking, or being a ho. I'm an elegant woman, a wife, a good lover. If your cock is going to enter me, you have to be polite and show some respect. A little gratitude helps too.

See the creamy skin on my butt? No one spanks it!
(Some women love it. That's okay, it's just not me).

Fast-forward in time to the happy ending. No, not that kind...lol. After being with numerous black men, I have found all to be respectful, kind, friendly, easy-going, grateful, and discrete. Nothing like I expected. I knew not all black men would expect to behave like a porn movie, and of course many white guys like objectifying women just as much as anyone else, but I had a preconception that it would be more difficult to screen the black guys who weren't expecting a slut-bitch-ho. HA, was I wrong. It's far easier to find a respectful, down-to-Earth black man who's comfortable having normal (though hot) sex with a married woman than it is finding a similarly-comfortable white guy. This applies especially when you multiply the number of men. I've had a couple of occasions to be the fuck toy for two and even three simultaneous black men. Never a problem. I recommend it highly... it reduces intermission times between cums. ;-)