January 27, 2012

A Note About My Photos

Just wanted to let you know I'm going to put some pics into my posts. You've know by now my posts are not stories of adventures, but rather my thoughts about the experience of being a hotwife.

All pics are of me with another man, not my husband. My husband is Caucasian, my lovers are often black. If I post a pic of me with a non-BBC, I'll let you know whether it's my husband or not (probably won't be).

My BBC friend is massaging my butt
as we chat between fuck sessions.

Most pics are tight close-up pics, and are thus very explicit. Truth be told, the photos more explicit than I care for. But my husband loves taking close-ups like this and although we do have many wider shots, they are too revealing and so I'm stuck with the close-in photos. Some of you will like them, some won't. Let me know.

All pics are taken by my husband except for a few that may be taken by my lover at the time. But if taken by my lover, I'll note that in the post's pic description. BTW, every photo is posted with the permission of all participants. Since most want complete discretion, even when it comes to non-identifying close-ups, the range of partners depicted is necessarily fewer than I have enjoyed playing with.

Hope you like.

BBC Wins Because Two or More is Fun

So all of you guys know the sexually sensitive parts of a woman. Every one of those parts is arousing to me to receive stimulation...gentle, sensual stimulation. My vagina, my mouth, my nipples, my clitoris, my anus. That's six areas on me that enjoys your tongue and your cock. One fella, no matter how origami-capable, cannot possibly stimulate all six, at least not within a close time frame. Well, I have a solution: MORE MEN!

Hotel meet-ups with two or more BBCs
are great fun. I'm omitting the other
at his request (always respected).

Forget kama sutra and all those movies with Pierce Brosnan having sex strewn across desks and kitchen counters. Simply put me on a bed and surround me with multiple men. I enjoy laying on my back and having a man between my legs pumping his cock in and out of my pussy. Add a man by my head with his cock in my mouth and I'm more immersed in the raw sexuality of the experience. Add a third to the other side who licks my nipple while simultaneously flicking my clit, and I'm going to explode!

But there's a problem. Nearly every white guy I communicate with as a prospective liaison becomes uncomfortable when I mention I want some other guys there too. They are occasionally worried that it increases the odds they'll run into someone they know...but c'mon, there's a lot of people in the world, 17 million in the greater SoCal region alone, so the likelihood that I'll happen to invite you and coincidentally your coworker are effectively zero. The real problem, I've learned from some of the more honest chaps, is the sloppy seconds fear. There's an "ick" factor, I've heard, in entering a woman after another man has been inside her, exacerbated if that other man has deposited his cum inside her--and in my case, me. 

Black studly men, however, LOVE IT! The majority (again, we're dealing with the average of my experience), actually are *more* aroused when my pussy is leaking another man's cum than they are being the first to enter. It surprised me, and maybe is surprising to you also, so I'll say it again: BBCs appear to enjoy sloppy seconds a lot. They want to enter me right after the other man withdraws, but only after spreading my pussy lips and watching the prior man's cum leak out of me and all over my labia. Then they plunge in and whip it into a shaving cream-like lather. If any BBC has problems orgasming, pumping my already-cummed-in  vagina seems to solve it; they cum quickly and hard. Soon another voluminous amount of sperm is dribbling out of me. 

Guess what happens next?

The third guy enters me and adds his load to my soaked interior. By then, I've transformed from an ordinary wife into a used cum dumpster. I'm claimed by everyone except my husband. Which one is on me, which is grunting as he shoots his load up inside me is a blur, there's so many rotating around me, putting their cock in my mouth and vagina, that I lose track.

With nearly every BBC I've encountered, they've been more enthusiastic to get together if they know there will be multiple men using me that night. The more the better. Exactly the opposite of all but a few of the white guys that have found my profile and tried to get me into bed.

January 20, 2012

Reluctant Because Large Cocks Hurt

Some women find large cocks irresistible. It's a big factor in their attraction to studly black men. I'm not one of those women. I'd had sex with men sporting various sized penises prior to my husband, even some whom I considered very large. Without fail, I was more comfortable with men of average size. Another thing, I had noticed that with the latin and white guys I'd been with, those with larger cocks had a lot more trouble cumming. They needed far more stimulation, preferred scraping with teeth as opposed to only using lips and tongue during fellatio, and pumped rigorously and incessantly trying to orgasm. Whew, that's a lot of work! Since I orgasm rather quickly, and am prone to a single large orgasm instead of multiple smaller ones, I don't like the extra pounding that it takes to get a desensitized guy to peak. It's probably also why I don't enjoy sex with men with buzzes. Desensitization makes everything more difficult. Average size guys seem to pop pretty easily.

I have a tight vagina, or at least so I've been told. I'll allow that most men tend to want to make their partner feel good and do so through compliments including how good they feel during sex, but my husband -- who's not particularly large -- points out that he has to spread me open as he enters, not just the first entry but with every stroke. I'm not talking about tightness that derives from the friction of the unlubricated labia, I'm talking about my muscles have to open to accommodate him and they close around him as he pulls backwards.

My tight pussy being opened by a BBC to show
my husband the cum he's just deposited in me.


My husband's average white-guy cock gives me the sensation of being filled, which makes clitoral stimulation all the better, and I orgasm easily with him. I had no desire for the large cocks depicted in online porn and profile ads for available BBCs. In fact, I expected it to be uncomfortable and avoided every BBC that solicited me. BTW, a lot of them solicited me.

So what changed?

Actually, not much. I still don't seek out a BBC because of his big black cock. I have sex with them because they make being a wife who's fucking a man other than her husband fun. I've learned to accommodate their large cocks. It's a matter of positioning, angles, and thrusting with, rather than opposite of, the man when they are at the deepest point. In other words, I pull off and out just slightly, and just at the moment they are about to slam against my cervix.

Oh, did I mention that some of those black guys hit my cervix? There's large, and there's there's giant BBCs. Large is great. It's become more comfortable for me and usually there's no pain involved. Giant is much harder, excuse the pun. Just getting one of those monsters inside of me is a project. I need lots of saliva in addition to my own wetness (I'm usually very wet but those require extra). I need the guy to go slow, inching it it as my pussy muscles relax their tension and allow the extra girth to stretch them, and I need to control depth once the deep plunging begins.

This Hotwife holding a sexy BBC cock.
(He took the photo since hubby wasn't around.)

My husband, on the other hand, simply LOVES a giant BBC stretching my womb to its capacity. I can't figure that out. He admits that sex with me afterwards for a few hours feels looser than my normal grip provides. He prefers extra stimulation of tight pussies over loose ones given his modest size. So you'd think he'd abhor large cocks stretching my vagina. Nope. Just the opposite.

He says he knows that the large cock pumping inside me is being squeezed to hell by my overstretched pussy, and he can envision his cock feeling that tightness. He also knows the cock is filling me like he cannot, and that once I've acclimated to the extra pressure I do orgasm very intensely. This excites him like crazy. And he knows the cock is feeling parts of me that he can never ever feel. That sensitive cock head that's plunged 9 inches inside of me has felt 3 or 4 inches of my pussy that my husband has never explored. Not to mention when that long cock lets fly its jism inside of me, way up inside of me, splashing hard against my cervical opening and coating my deepest regions with this stranger's cum. This, according to my husband, is the most exciting thing he's ever participated in. Trying to eradicate that BBCs cum from my inner walls is so powerful a mental quest it overcomes the feeling of being looser than normal. Being stretched is also an excitement enhancer, according to him. It's yet more proof his wife was taken and used by a virile man with twice the cock as my husband, making his body work three times harder to match and best that conqueror.

Every now and again I have to tell a guy to stop thrusting so hard, or I have to change positions to prevent bottoming out. In porn movies, the guys all seem to pull out and cum on the woman's face (which I'm not into). Or they cum with their cocks halfway withdrawn so the camera has a shot of the shaft. In real life, these BBCs push into me as hard as they can, squishing their balls against me as they pump their load into me, even when they are longer than my womb. If I happen to see one of the pics my husband has taken, I will often comment aloud how I can't figure out how that eight to ten inches of monster cock fit inside me without poking my lungs.