We Do It To Enhance OUR Sex Lives

My fucking other men is a joint-venture, a partnership between my husband and I. He isn't bi and so he doesn't participate in any physical way, but he does give permission, he does watch, and he does enjoy. He can do this because he trusts me. He knows I love him and he knows I'm not playing as a pretext for looking for a better model of a man to upgrade to. He also knows I can keep my sex and my love separated. I realize not every woman can, but I find it rather easy to do, especially now that I'm content with the husband I have.

I do this because we enjoy sex with each other more owing to my body being used by other men. Did you catch that? This is 90% about improving the sex life of my husband and I. Now don't misunderstand, I didn't take this up as a last-ditch effort to improve a sagging or lackluster intimacy level with my husband; not at all. We had a wonderful sex life. In fact, it was his terrific enjoyment of me that led to his wishing others knew how wonderful I felt to fuck. He had been with many women before meeting me, so he felt he had a good reference base with which to conclude that I was dynamite. I'm not bragging, because I think he has those wife-adoration goggles on and I'm not actually so special, but the point is he thought I was. So we had a great sex life already. The difference is that I found I could raise his lust-point even higher when I would ask him to come home from work and do me, with him discovering only when he arrived that my pussy was already soaked with cum from a lover who had visited and already left. That's when the skyrockets fly! Sloppy seconds is his thing. He loves it.

My Pussy After A Massive BBC Cum Load Injection

So it's not about the fantasy of the other man. Yes they are handsome typically, and yes they are fun to have sex with; but before it happens it isn't the source of my pleasure and after it's over with it isn't the source of my pleasure--my husband is my source.

I don't IM with guys, I don't do video chat, and I don't masturbate thinking about the hot studly guys I've been with or am about to potentially enjoy. What gets me off is thinking about how ravishingly horny I can make my husband, and how hard he's going to POP when I remind him of the big black dick that pumped my pussy full of cum last week.

Let's be clear, my husband's excitement is my enjoyment. I confess that I also enjoy being the object of pleasure for these handsome men, and I enjoy being thoroughly fucked by studly guys; so yes, there's that benefit too. But the real eroticism comes from making my husband WANT ME so much. And want me he does.

When Hubby's Away, BBC's Play
Cell Pic Sent to Hubby by BBC 

I mean really, how many wives can make their husbands crazy with lust after many years of marriage? I expect every solid marriage is filled with passion as well as sensuality, and that is the bread and butter of our sexual connection as well. But every once in a while, probably about twice a week, I add the spice of reminding my husband that my pussy is the lust object of several men who enjoy it several times a year. OMG, that does it for my husband, he gets sooooo hard! He thrusts into me wildly. I feel like I'm the mistress, not the wife. He treats me like I'm the new conquest. He goes wild...for ME! So it's a lot of fun. It's fun during the time I enjoy being ravished by appreciative guys, but it's even more fun during the stretches of time in between those episodes, the times when my pillow-talk and the session's photos, taken by my husband, is the source of our erotic adventures.

Cuckold is Not the Correct Description

As I understand it from my husband, a cuckold is someone whose wife has been sexually enjoyed by another after the marriage vows were exchanged. So technically, the husband of a hotwife is a cuckold. But in practice, I've found guys who relish being dominated by bulls and by domineering wives tend to call themselves cuckolds, so the term has morphed.

While many husbands of sexually active wives enjoy full-on cuckolding, my husband is simply a monogamous heterosexual spouse who loves to watch my pussy being filled with the cum of another man. He doesn't fluff the man before entry (i.e. suck him to readiness), he doesn't lick clean the spent cock of its cum upon withdrawal from my pussy. I don't tell him not to enjoy himself, nor do I order him not to participate. He is often snapping pics and making room for the other men to have full access to me, so de facto he usually doesn't participate until the other men have had their fill, but it's not from a domination criteria. He doesn't like things up his butt. He does, however, LOVE SLOPPY SECONDS.

BBC Showing My Husband My Cum-Filled Pussy
Hubby's going to fuck me with the BBC cum as lube!

He enjoys the feeling of sliding his cock into my pussy after a warm deposit has already been left there by another man. He can feel the slippery lubrication of the cum all over my vaginal walls. This, he says, is tactile confirmation to his brain of what his eyes had just transmitted.

Hubby Examining My Pussy After The BBC Exploded In Me

The more senses that confirm the impossible -- that his wife is another man's fucktoy, the stronger the sensation of sexual stimulation. He doesn't eat other men's cum as a requirement to clean my pussy, but if I was fucked out of the presence of my husband, the aroma of my used pussy and the taste of the remnants of the other man's cum confirm unambiguously that my husband has lost exclusive rights to my pussy. So on those occasions, he licks me as much as possible.

So what's the word that we can use as a descriptor for a non-sissy hetero man who enjoys his wife being used for the pleasure of large-cock studs?

Why Does Every BBC Want Anal Sex?

I have a big posterior. It's shapely, but it ain't petite. Perhaps that's why most of the lovers I'd had prior to meeting my husband weren't very interested in it. My husband loves it, and rubs it every chance he gets. Most of the white guys I had sex with upon embarking on my hotwife hobby were most interested in missionary sex. Some doggy style (my favorite), but not as much as I expected.

Then I switched to BBCs. The side effect of which was to find myself the recipient of numerous requests to enter me anally. Apparently, most BBCs are into anal sex in a big way, and my larger butt just tempts and taunts them until they want to put their cocks in my ass. They want to leave my husband a creampie. It's the ultimate way to claim me and cuckold him.

Spreading My Ass Cheeks to View Creampie He Left Me

I'm not into anal sex. Never was, didn't expect to change. I told my husband he could have anal sex with my only if he first let me shove a broomstick up his rectum (a prospect he did not like). So imagine my surprise when nearly every lover wanted to cum in my ass. Given the size of most black men's cock, especially those with whom I was having sex with, there was no way that thing was going to fit.

I don't like pain. Anal sex is painful, even with the smaller dick size of my Caucasian husband. But after a while, with adequate lube (very greasy gel lube, not any slippery substance) and some pre-fingering, I could let him in *only* if I was also using a vibrator on my clit to relax my sphincter. And he had a time limit...2 minutes and you have to be outa there, orgasm or not.

Laying on My Stomach To Relax Me for Entry.
I didn't expect him to push so deep into me!

Soon I found I would orgasm to the combination of my clit vibe and my rectum being stretched. But after I came, the guy had to withdraw, as I became too focused on the discomfort. Yet on several occasions, I found myself caught up in the eroticism of being the sex object of two lustful BBCs who wanted to deposit their sperm into every orifice on my body. It was a claim thing. The more places they leave their cum, the more I am their woman and the less I am my husband's woman. Anal sex is the ultimate claim on a woman. It's the most private, most guarded part of a woman. Most lovers are allowed vaginal sex while being denied backdoor access. So for these BBCs to slide their cocks deep into my ass and pump until they explode is, for them, to be doing something almost no one else has ever been allowed to do.



No guy ever had anal sex with me prior to my husband. My husband gets it on rare occasion. But a new BBC will usually want it, and unless there's extenuating circumstances, I'm going to let him. And let me assure you the creampie-allure applies here as well. If one BBC (usually the smaller cock at the party) has fucked me in the ass and came, once he withdraws the dribble of cum around my anus will cause the other guys to become ragingly hard and beg to enter. I can barely handle one, but I've gone over the deep end and let two in a row fuck my ass because I know how much it turns them on. It also makes my husband extremely jealous, both because I'm being taken in my most private sanctuary and because they get to fuck my ass more readily than I allow him.

Balls Deep Into My Anus
I'm on my knees.

Lately I've found I enjoy DPs. The BBCs want to double penetrate me and both cum more readily than they otherwise would. It's not smooth for them to get into a position where the angle is comfortable for me, but they are okay with the awkwardness so I am accepting of it also. I guess that's the sluttiest thing I've done in front of my husband. He watches as two cocks stiffen, explode, then soften until they pop out of my twin tight orifices coated in cum, and extra oozes out of both of my orifices.

Long BBC Cock Stroking Into My Ass
No One Exits Until They've Cum ;-)

It doesn't happen often, as it's hard to get the pieces in place. You have to have two guys who are okay with close proximity to another man's junk and who like the idea of DPing a wife with the husband present. Both men have to be very stiff. Any softness and there's no way the anal entry is going to happen, especially with the extra pressure of a cock pressing it closed even tighter. And if the vaginal visitor is not hard, he bends and pops out to readily. Since a DP is often something everyone thinks of after one or both guys have already cum in my pussy in turns, it's not a viable option on most occasions. But sometimes the stars align!